Why do I dress up? Ya know how there are such beautiful temples or churches, and when a high guru, priest, Rabbi ect visits they probably take extra time to clean, to add flowers, to make it inviting. Well I dress up, especially when I work, even when it's only on the phone because I am a divine, beloved being and I want to welcome you with cleanliness and beauty. I want you to know that I took extra care so that you know you're significant. This also translates to me. My beloved spirit lives in my body, so I do my very best to adorn and care for my temple. This temple care includes kindness, compassion, cleanliness, dress ups, jewelry, and what I put into it (life giving foods and beverages.) This of course is just my ideal, I have failed my temple/body miserably at times but value and adoration of my temple is my goal. I welcome me and I welcome you.
P.S. Can you imagine the excitement of preparing for sex knowing the two of you were about to worship the divine. The care, significance and love your partner would feel knowing you prepared yourself for them...I love when Jay does what he calls "manscaping". He loves when I go to him and say "look, feel.. I shaved for you, I am all soft and lovely. This is not about "have to" this is about generosity and self care. What makes you feel good, relaxed, welcome? What makes them feel the same?
I had a person share the other day: "I was hurt because she got ready to go be with her friends and was clean, excited and dressed up. I thought maybe she doesn't love me anymore because she doesn't do that to be with me."