Well...nothing went wrong. The movers came today with all of our stuff from California. We've been here in Hawaii for 2 weeks sleeping on a mattress that was delivered before we came, and cooking with stuff we bought from Ross, which will go in our rental. A potentially stressful time was smoothed out as Heidi and I reaffirmed what we already knew- that we share some of the same quirks about order, cleanliness and decorating as well as both being anti-hoarders. I'm so grateful to be making a home with this beautiful person. And, after working a few hours, the blue Hawaii water called to us and we were surfing and swimming, getting ready to unpack more later and set up our- and let's call it what it is- our tropical Hawaiian estate.
P.S. By Heidi
I have found one of the biggest challenges for couples beside sex or money is different values in the way they keep a home. It is SO IMPORTANT to support each others comfort on the home front as our home should be a place we love to be. Do you feel welcome in your home and do you make the effort to allow others who live with you feel welcome?